Fierce love craves vulnerability. It’s messy and feels dangerous.
We fear it …. and shield our hearts while hiding in neat and tidy safe zones.
Fear is human. It’s OK. It’s normal and runs deep inside us.
Fear protected our ancestors and kept them alive.
Today, when fear comes over us….and it happens in a nano-second….we all have the same reaction: fight, flight or freeze.
These feelings amplify when we face failure in our relationship.
To cope, we deny the feelings or try to control them.
Continue Reading Fierce Love, Fear, Failure and Relationship
I imagine some couples glide thru life and wake up cheerful every day. They agree on most issues, share everything, and use their energy in a perfectly harmonious division of duties. I’ve never met one of those couples but movies and magazines want us to believe they’re out there somewhere.
