In a safe, intimate partnership, there is nothing more important than approaching each other with an open mind and a vulnerable heart.
The moment we seed our interactions with defenses and demands, we are no longer relating.
It’s subtle, yet over time, we can see how easily and often we project images and comparisons onto our relationships.
When we show up open, without labels or expectations, things start to shift.
The approach is simply to allow; to relax and show up as if you’ve never done it before.
You genuinely don’t know what’s going to happen.
You’re showing up as your unique and original self… willing to relate… not knowing what is going to happen in this moment… or the next.
Your mind is open and your heart is available.
You’re naturally curious and able to experience your partner.
Letting go of all those thoughts of what your relationship should be, is a radical idea.
One worth considering.