Helping People Connect
| By Anne Hancock, Psy.D.
Creating emotional balance and safety in a topsy-turvy world seems impossible some days.
Intuitively, we know love, attention and connection are are key; everywhere present and scarce at the same time.
So we seek it. Crave it. Demand it.
While the essence of it all might just be about mastering how to give and receive it.
What we believe matters… now more than ever.
| By Anne Hancock, Psy.D.
Just a simple reminder on how well you’re doing.
Those anxious moments you had a year ago are gone.
The problem was either resolved or it faded into the background. Something you live with but no longer think of as urgent.
Today there are other issues – for sure!
And, knowing you can get through every single overwhelming moment makes it easier to see what’s real.
When we give our attention to the important stuff instead of the panic within, we learn to build a cycle of goodness.
| By Anne Hancock, Psy.D.
If you kick back now and then to reflect, you know almost everything in your world is good.
You’re successful by any standards. You have wonderful people in your life, a nice home, cars and plenty of toys.
Life works and most days you’re happy.
Sometimes you might feel over extended, criticized or exhausted and what you need MOST is to connect with your partner.
The challenge is getting their attention….. effectively…. without slipping into an argument or negative spin.
And while you don’t expect perfection, at the end of the day, when you’re out of public view you know things can be better.
You are prepped and ready to experience our amazing…
It’s our final workshop of the year and the perfect opportunity to carve out “time for us” while getting up close and personal with the ONE you love.
I have lots of powerful relationship information to share and I provide plenty of safe, structured space for conversations YOU want and cannot seem to have at home.
Best of all – there is NO public disclosure.
Every conversation is between you and your partner ONLY.
Any time you need coaching, you can call on me or one of the extraordinary relationship consultants who will be in the room with me. But only if you want it!
Act now. It’s our final workshop of the year. You can get more information and secure your seat here:
Or, you can call us at 704-319-5593 where our client support team is happy to help and answer any questions you might have.
| By Anne Hancock, Psy.D.
You can’t expect much from a person who’s hurting or in crisis. Someone who’s drowning isn’t going to offer up a cocktail or ask about your day.
They’re in a panic and focused on keeping their head above water.
Generosity requires space and attention.
Stepping back. Tuning in.
| By Anne Hancock, Psy.D.
With new beginnings, it’s good to be clear on what you value.
But, the power is always in your questions.
You can ask; what’s fast, cheap and easy?
Or you can ask:
| By Anne Hancock, Psy.D.
It’s challenging to talk with another human being about what’s happening inside.
If we do, one or both people might get triggered setting off a chain of thoughts and emotions most people try to avoid.
The meta message? “Let’s not get emotional about this and let’s be rational, shall we?”
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